This is a sometimes painful, sometimes humorous, often absurd story of multiple journeys: the journey of loss as the director’s mother Aida struggled with Alzheimer’s disease finding solace in her repeated “returning” to the Yafa of her youth; the journey of losing a parent; and the ultimate return journey to Yafa where Aida would finally find rest. After her mother’s passing, director Carol Mansour, met friends in Beirut willing to carry Aida back with them to Palestine. The film accompanies Carol as she engineers a way to return her mother aided by an unlikely set of friends and strangers coming together to facilitate what should have been a simple journey. This journey is at the same time very private and yet universal. It is a tribute to the lost past of the director’s family, an attempt to restore part of both an individual and a collective memory, and a poetic nod and affirmation to all those exiled Palestinians forbidden from returning to their hometowns, even after death.
Carol Mansour’s Aida Returns (أمي العائدة إلى يافا) is a deeply moving documentary (1h 17min) that intertwines personal tragedy with the collective memory of displacement. At its heart, it is the story of Mansour’s mother, Aida, who struggled with Alzheimer’s disease, slowly losing herself to the erosion of memory, yet constantly "returning" to the Yafa of her youth. This mental return mirrors the physical one Aida yearned for—a journey back to Yafa, the city she had been exiled from along with hundreds of thousands of Palestinians. This film is a tribute to that yearning, one that stretches across generations, exile, and death itself.
The documentary captures Aida’s decline through Alzheimer’s, with moments of clarity where she would speak of Yafa as though it were just around the corner, not miles away, blocked by borders and history. Her return to her lost home was something that even death could not take from her. Four years after Aida’s passing, Mansour, accompanied by friends like Tanya from Ramallah, embarks on a literal journey to return her mother’s ashes to Yafa. What begins as a personal endeavor grows into a shared mission, with friends, strangers, and even bureaucrats contributing to make this impossible return a reality.
At the core of Aida Returns is the raw, emotional landscape of losing a loved one to Alzheimer's. Mansour weaves a tender narrative of grief, displacement, and the ongoing Palestinian struggle for the right to return. Aida's final journey is not just about Mansour’s personal loss but echoes the experiences of countless Palestinians who have been forcibly separated from their homeland.
The film also serves as a broader tribute to those suffering from Alzheimer’s, chronicling the painful unraveling of identity and memory. It is both an intimate family story and a poetic exploration of the yearning for home—a powerful symbol of the Palestinian experience.
The journey to Yafa serves as the film’s narrative backbone, but it’s not just about transporting ashes. The film touches on the many obstacles Mansour and her companions face—from the practical logistics of moving through borders to the emotional weight of finally returning home, only to find it changed. The return to Yafa symbolizes a political act, challenging the denial of return for Palestinians in exile. Aida’s ashes, carried by the winds of her daughter’s love, break the barriers imposed by time, war, and politics.
Yafa, a place central to the Palestinian collective memory, becomes both a dream and a destination. For Aida, her mind would drift back to the Yafa of her childhood, where the sea kissed the shores of a bustling city now occupied and forever altered. Her desire to return, even after death, is a testament to the enduring connection between Palestinians and their homeland.
The theme of memory runs throughout Aida Returns, not just in Aida’s mental deterioration but also in the metaphorical memory of Palestine. For Aida, Alzheimer’s gradually stripped away the present, but it could never erase her memories of Yafa. Her illness becomes a poignant reflection of the Palestinian exile experience—time fades, the future feels uncertain, but the past remains firmly rooted, no matter how hard one tries to forget or move on.
The film portrays the cruel irony of Alzheimer’s. Aida could not remember many things, yet the desire to return to Yafa persisted as her most vivid and enduring memory. The film subtly explores the emotional toll Alzheimer’s takes on both the patient and their family, especially in Mansour’s tender reflections on the last years of her mother’s life.
While Aida Returns is deeply personal, it speaks to the larger Palestinian struggle for return. Mansour’s journey with her mother’s ashes is a symbolic one—many Palestinians have died in exile, unable to return home. The film is a tribute to these countless untold stories, to those who, like Aida, never stopped longing for their lost cities, villages, and homes.
The film also demonstrates the power of human connection. Mansour’s journey is aided by a community of people—Tanya, the friends in Ramallah, and others who step in to help. These relationships symbolize solidarity in a shared cause, highlighting the collective yearning for justice, home, and closure.
Carol Mansour has spent her career documenting human rights issues, and Aida Returns is no different. Her body of work is deeply rooted in themes of displacement, social justice, and the human condition, and this film is no exception. With over 25 years in the documentary field, Mansour has carved a space for films that matter—films that reflect the complexity of human life, its beauty, its pain, and its injustice.
In Aida Returns, Mansour brings her expertise to bear, crafting a narrative that is as much about a mother’s love as it is about an exiled people’s ongoing struggle. Her ability to blend personal grief with broader political themes is both masterful and deeply moving.
Aida Returns – أمي العائدة إلى يافا* is more than a film about Alzheimer’s, it’s a story about memory, exile, and the enduring human spirit. It honors the Palestinians who are still waiting to return to their homes and the families grappling with the painful loss of loved ones to Alzheimer's. Aida’s final journey to Yafa becomes a powerful symbol of both personal and collective return, and a testament to the lengths we go to find peace for ourselves and those we love.